As I think you all know, I have an opportunity to talk to people every day about their personality style and their personality profile. And many people look forward to the conversations, and many people, especially candidates, are a bit nervous about what the profile is going to say about them. And lo and behold, in the eyes of the beholder the profile is seen as a positive picture of their personality style. And the reason is because it focuses on the strengths of the individual, what the person does well. And if that is what you do well, be it a relationship builder, or create harmony, or create process, all of those things make you feel good about yourself. And so it’s really common, at the end of the conversation, that the individual will say to me, “Gee, I’m not as bad as I thought I was”. I laugh and I say, “Well, yeah. You know, you’re not. In fact, there are a lot of really positive things about your personality and there are a lot of things that you can be very effective in doing.” The conversation turns out to be very much an affirmation of the individual’s strengths and it feels good. It feels good for them. I have to tell you it feels good for me, too, because we’re talking about positive things and it’s very relevant because we can build and grow from our strengths much faster, much more effectively and have a lot more fun doing it, than always worrying about what we do wrong. You know, I think we heard enough about what we did wrong when we were kids. It’s time to move beyond that. And, yes, I know we sometimes have that little boy or little girl on our shoulder telling us that we suck, but you know, there is more to life than that. If you can truly embrace what you do well and what your strengths are, then you can actually take on those things that you’re not as comfortable with, and recognize the need to consciously adapt your behavior to deal with those things, but celebrate the fact that you actually bring a lot of strengths to the table. So it’s true, maybe you don’t suck as much as you think. Did you ever think of that? You should. Thanks for your time.

Even in these difficult economic times, our clients still find it very difficult to find quality candidates that they are prepared to hire. We would like to think that people are just sticking out there, you know, hanging around the telephone booth waiting for the phone call but the fact of the matter is most of us have very, very specific needs and it’s hard to find candidates that really do fit the bill. But every once in a while, you find two.

The question becomes:

What steps can you take when you really have two quality candidates?

That was a dilemma that one of our clients was facing. It was a position for sales and they had two candidates, each had very different personality profiles, both of them could certainly be very effective in sales. But their situations were very different. One person had been out of work for a while, had taken a bit of a sabbatical to deal with some family-related issues which is not at all unusual. The other person was gainfully employed, working for a competitor, and was being recruited by them, so to speak.

Well the first candidate was going full speed all out to get the job. Anything that needed to be done as part of the interview process, they really went overboard and did everything perfectly. The other candidate who was gainfully employed didn’t put nearly as much time into the effort. As a result when it came to presentations and follow-up, they really didn’t measure up at the same level. But the client understood why.

So we talked about it. I made a recommendation to let both of them know that there is competition for the position, and to let them know what your concern is in each case. Give them a chance to see how they would respond and how they would deal with that situation because after all, for sales people, this is going to be a natural evolution and this is an opportunity for you to have evidence of their behavior.

You might likely say, well the person who’s gainfully employed, well they’re not going to put in the same effort and the person who is unemployed is really going to knock themselves out. But the true nature of a competitor will come through when they realize a position that they say they want is on the line.

So the morale of the story is, give your candidates a chance to compete and pay close attention to how they deal with it because the way they deal with that competition will be very much the way they deal with…working for you.

I want to tell you a little story about a meeting that I recently attended. A presenter came up to talk to the group and the first thing he said was, “I am not here to sell you anything.” I thought back to the movie, The Best Little Whorehouse in Texas, where the madam says to her daughter, “don’t trust anybody that ever says, trust me” and I think I have learned that same lesson whenever anybody says to me, “I am not here to sell you something.” That’s the time that you want to reach for your wallet and hold it with both of your hands , because clearly the person is there to sell you something.

It’s so interesting that people take the approach that says ” I am not here to sell you something.” Isn’t the reality that we are all here to sell everybody everything, and its so much better if you can just admit that. When I am talking to my clients about the behavioral profile and the value that we bring to the table, I am obviously trying to sell them on the value . If a candidate is talking to me about why they are a good sales person, they are trying to sell me on that. I really think that you need to be careful if you take an attitude that says I am not here to sell you something . Either its an indication that you are trying to be devious or you really don’t know why you are there.

If you are there to sell something to somebody there is nothing wrong with letting them know that you really believe in what you have got and you hope that after you have been able to talk with them that the value that you see in what you offer they are able to see as well.

Sales is an honorable profession, don’t ever forget that.

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I want to talk with you today about whether or not a bad personality can be fixed. It’s an interesting concept and it’s something that we’re probably all familiar with at some level. I was in an Executive Suite for a number of years, and we had a receptionist who was a very sharp person, but also highly critical. If she liked you as a tenant, you got very good service. But if she decided, in her infinite wisdom, that you weren’t very capable in what you did, you got lousy service, and I watched this happen.

Of course I was on the side of getting very good service, so I was okay. But it clearly was not an okay situation. And really, the nature of this person was that she had a critical nature and you could say that she couldn’t help herself. Or of course she could. But it raises the point when you have someone that has a personality style that’s not fit for a particular role; can you as a leader fix that personality?

Well, to an extent you can, but you need to realize that there’s only so much elastic that you’re able to get out of somebody. So asking somebody to be so different from what their natural style is, is a very uncomfortable place to put people. In fact, our role as a leader is to be able to find the right fit for people.

Now maybe in this case, there wasn’t a right fit for this particular person in this organization and you need to look at that as reality as well. We only have a certain amount of flexibility and we all need it, because there isn’t any such thing as the perfect personality for a job. We all need to recognize there is a time and a place where we need to modify what our own nature is to accommodate the requirements of that position. In some ways, we all have bad personalities for what we do. Hopefully, it’s more good than bad and we can take advantage of the good and when we need to, adjust, so we could be effective in our role.

Thanks for your time.